Balancing Ballet and Bedtime: My Life as a Working Dance Mom

Motherhood has taught me more about grace, resilience, and flexibility than any plié or port de bras ever could. And somehow, being a dance teacher has made room for all of it.

In honor of Mother’s Day, I want to share a little of what it looks like to balance motherhood and a career in the arts. This isn’t a story about having it all perfectly figured out, because I definitely don’t. This is about finding joy in the chaos, pride in the juggle, and gratitude in the unique work environments that allow me to be both a fully present mom and a passionate dance educator.

The Arts: A Place Where Both Can Exist

The arts, dance more specifically has always been a space where I could show up fully as myself. But once I became a mom, I realized it was more than that. It was a space that welcomed my motherhood.

When I returned to teaching after having my baby, I didn’t have to choose between being there for my students and being there for my child. I taught classes with my baby strapped in a carrier and typed up lesson plans with a toddler on my lap. My coworkers and fellow teachers became part of my village bringing snacks, taking turns holding the baby, or just offering a knowing smile that said, “I see you. You’re doing great.”

That kind of support isn’t something I take for granted. It’s rare. And I believe the arts do something special in creating those kinds of spaces where life and work don’t have to compete but can actually complement each other.

Where Work and Motherhood Intertwine

There’s a certain kind of magic that happens on a Saturday morning in ballet class. You’ve got toddlers twirling in tutus, parents peeking through the window, and somewhere in the middle of it all me, juggling warm-ups, freeze dance, and making sure the baby’s pacifier didn’t roll under the piano.

These are the moments that used to feel impossible before I became a mom. Now? They’re a normal part of my week.

I’ve found joy in teaching Mommy and Me classes because I see myself in the parents. I know what it feels like to need a class that’s not just fun and flexible for the little ones, but forgiving and full of community for the grown-ups too. If you’re curious how I plan those sessions, I wrote about it here:
👉 How to Teach a Mommy and Me Dance Class: A Fun and Flexible Lesson Plan for Ages 18 Months to 2

It’s not always seamless. There are days when my baby is fussy, my toddler is clingy, and the music isn’t working. But there are also days where it flows where the dance class becomes a safe space for all of us to move, breathe, and just be. Those days remind me why I chose this path.

Growing My Family and My Career

One of the best parts about working in the arts is that I haven’t had to put my dreams on pause. I’ve been able to grow my family while still showing up for my students, developing my curriculum, and even stepping into leadership roles.

Dance is a career that can evolve with your season of life. Early in my teaching journey, I thrived on back-to-back rehearsals and late-night planning sessions. These days, I build my schedule around nap times, school pick-up, and dinner prep. And guess what? I’m still growing.

It’s not always easy. Performance weeks can be a beast (any dance mom will tell you that!). But with the right tools and a solid plan, it’s manageable. If recital season is coming up for you, make sure to check out my go-to prep list here:
👉 Recital Survival Guide: Everything You Need to Know for a Smooth Performance

And if you’re still trying to figure out your rhythm, here’s a peek at what works for me:
👉 Morning Routine for Dance Teachers: Finding Balance as a Mom, Teacher, and Artist

The arts have given me the flexibility to pivot when I need to and the freedom to keep dreaming even with a diaper bag slung over my shoulder.

The Village That Dance Built

There’s something special about being part of a dance community. It’s not just about technique and performances. It’s about connection.

My students don’t just see me as their dance teacher—they see me as a mom. And I love that. I want them to know that you can be strong, creative, nurturing, and ambitious all at once. I want my own children to see me doing something I love, not because it’s easy, but because it matters.

When we show up for ourselves, we show our kids what’s possible.

And as moms, sometimes we forget we’re not alone. Every time a coworker offers to help. Every time a fellow dance mom cheers you on. Every time your child claps for you after class. That’s your village showing up.

Final Steps

So, to all the working dance moms whether you’re teaching, choreographing, performing, or just trying to get through a Saturday ballet class without forgetting the snacks I see you. You are doing sacred work, even when it doesn’t feel graceful.

This Mother’s Day, I hope you pause long enough to be proud of yourself. I hope you feel how much your presence matters in your family and in the studio.

And if no one’s told you lately: You’re doing a beautiful job. 💕

If you’re looking for encouragement as you navigate this season, I recently shared more reflections here:
👉 Finding Balance and Creativity in 2025: My Dance Journey as a Mom, Educator, and Artist